Ways to quit smoking for good 

They don't call cigarettes "cancer sticks" and "coffin nails" for nothing. When you smoke, you expose yourself to more than 4,800 chemicals, including cyanide, benzene and ammonia -- and at least 69 can cause cancer. Perhaps the best known is nicotine, an addictive compound that can make it ferociously hard to stop smoking. 

Although smoking may feel good at the time, it hurts every organ in your body and accounts for 1 out of 5 deaths yearly. 

Cigarette smokers are: 

  • Two to four times more likely to suffer from heart disease, the leading cause of death in the U.S. 

  • At a much greater risk of getting lung cancer than a nonsmoker. 

  • Have an increased risk for stroke and are twice as likely to have a heart attack as a nonsmoker. 

Smokers are also more likely to suffer from: 

  • Hardening of the arteries 

  • Bronchitis 

  • Shortness of breath 

  • Emphysema  

Over time, signs of "smoker's face," premature wrinkling marked by dozens of tiny creases, begin to develop. Smoking also gives you bad breath and stains your teeth and fingers, and the secondhand smoke from your cigarettes is likely to irritate friends and family members who don't smoke. 

Secondhand smoke is also hazardous to their health -- more than 49,000 people die annually of lung cancer and heart disease from breathing other people's smoke. A nonsmoker married to a smoker has about a 30 percent higher risk of developing lung cancer than one who lives with a nonsmoker. Children whose parents smoke are more likely to suffer from pneumonia or bronchitis in the first two years of life than children who live in smoke-free households.   

How health improves when you stop smoking 

Your body benefits as soon as you stop smoking. According to the American Lung Association: 

  • Within 20 minutes of your last cigarette, your elevated blood pressure and pulse rate drop. After a couple of days, your abilities to smell and taste improve, and your damaged nerve endings start to repair themselves. 

  • Within a few months, walking and other physical activities will become easier, and your lung function will increase. 

  • After 10 years, you'll nearly halve your chances of getting lung cancer. 

How to quit successfully 

  • Make a plan. Preparing to quit is an essential first step. There's no right way to stop smoking, but smokers who lay the groundwork are likely to succeed. Make a list of the people, places and pastimes associated with your smoking -- anything that "triggers" your behavior. One of the hardest things about being a regular smoker and then giving it up is that you'll always know how good that after-dinner smoke tastes. 

  • Come up with a plan for coping with each of those triggers. For example, after a meal, you may want to get up and take a walk -- or brush your teeth. If you always pop a cigarette in your mouth when you leave work at the end of the day, substitute a lollipop or a toothpick (the oral fixation fostered by smoking is one of its more insidious aspects). If a glass of wine makes you reach for a cigarette, you may want to avoid alcohol for the first week. 

  • Set a quit date. Pick a date that's realistic and allows you to develop your plan. Try to select a time when you don't anticipate being under much stress yet will be too busy to sit around thinking about smoking. It may also help to start when you have a little extra impetus. For example, if you visit people around whom you can't smoke (your grandparents or your in-laws, perhaps), vow to remain smoke-free after the trip. You'll have a few days under your belt already. 

  • Tell your friends and family about your plan. Having their support and knowing they're counting on you can increase your motivation to stick with it. 

  • If involving others doesn't suit you, become a "quiet quitter." For some people, kicking the habit without all the fanfare and questions from concerned supporters is easier in the long run. Knowing that everyone's "counting on you" might stress you to the point of failure instead of bolstering your resolve. Which approach will work best depends on your personality. 

  • Take it day-by-day -- or even trigger-by-trigger. This may sound like "addiction-speak," but it works. To approach the process by thinking, "I can't wait until I've been nicotine-free for a week" won't help you with that craving you get with your morning coffee on the very first day. 

Resources to help you quit 

The good news is that there's a lot of support available. Such as: 

Stop-smoking groups 

  • The American Cancer Society (http://www.cancer.org or 800-ACS-2345) can refer you to a chapter in your area. 

  • The American Lung Association (http://www.lungusa.org or (800) LUNG-USA)   

Quitting tools 

Nicotine replacement products. Gum or a patch releases nicotine into your body, helping to reduce the physical withdrawal symptoms that may occur during the first few weeks that you go without cigarettes. The gum delivers nicotine through the lining of your mouth, although it causes soreness and burning of the mouth in some people.

The patch is small and worn on the skin; it transmits an even flow of nicotine through the skin and into the bloodstream. (About 25 to 50 percent of those using it experience some itching or burning at the site of the patch; nausea, headache, cough, insomnia and vertigo have also been reported.) Both products are available without a prescription at many drugstores and supermarkets. 

Zyban (bupropion). As an antidepressant, bupropion is sold as Wellbutrin, but the product prescribed to ease the craving for cigarettes is known as Zyban. This prescription drug doesn't contain nicotine, and although researchers aren't sure how it works, the drug appears to help in brain chemistry that may occur when you quit smoking. It may diminish some withdrawal symptoms, such as irritability, frustration, anxiety and cravings.

In 2005, the Food and Drug Administration issued an alert for bupropion, citing research that showed an increased risk for suicidal behavior in children and adults when taking the medication for depression. If you're interested in using Zyban to help you quit, talk to your doctor about possible side effects before getting a prescription. 

Some health insurance plans cover the costs of these quitting aids. Both nicotine replacement products and Zyban can have side effects. Consult your doctor about any of these products before trying them, particularly if you're pregnant or have heart disease or another chronic illness, to make sure the products are safe for you. 

You may also want to consider alternative methods, which include hypnosis and acupuncture, to help you stop smoking. 

How can I cope with cravings once I do quit? 

When the desire for a cigarette gets intense, try the Four D's: 

  • Delay:  Look at your watch and wait a couple of minutes. The urge to smoke will often be gone by the time the second hand has circled twice. (As the days pass, the urges will come less often.) 

  • Distraction:  Whatever you were doing when the urge to smoke surfaced, do something else. If you're alone, find someone to talk to. If you're sitting, take a short walk. 

  • Drinking water:  Water helps satisfy the need to put something in your mouth and your body -- and it's good for you. 

  • Deep breathing:  Inhale slowly and deeply. Pause when your lungs are full and count to five. Then, exhale slowly. Repeat several times. 

Some other tips on fighting urges: 

  • Keep busy. If you find yourself obsessing about smoking, find something to do. Come up with activities that engage you in some way: Make a quick phone call, take a short walk or talk with a co-worker or friend. 

  • Develop new interests. Take a class, begin a household improvement project or exercise routine. Whether walking, biking, jogging, swimming or taking an aerobics class, exercise can distract your mind and body from the desire for cigarettes. Any of these activities can make you feel better and improve your health. And chances are the healthier you feel, the less you'll want to taint that by smoking. 

  • Get support and encouragement. Make an arrangement with someone you can call anytime, day or night, whenever the urge to smoke gets too strong. This can be particularly helpful if you have a sudden emotional shock or a slip-up. Your "support buddy" can be a friend (try to choose someone positive and understanding yet firm). 

How can I keep from gaining weight after I quit?  

Not everyone gains weight after giving up cigarettes. However, your metabolism will return to an average, slower speed without nicotine. So, if you eat more and don't exercise, you will probably gain a few pounds. To prevent this, avoid high-fat foods and constant snacking. If you can, exercise throughout the day: 

  • Take the stairs at work instead of the elevator. 

  • Go for a brisk walk each day. 

  • Start or add to your fitness program. 

Try not to panic about modest weight gain. The health risks of smoking far surpass the risks of gaining five to 10 pounds.   

What if I fail the first time?  

If you slip up and have a cigarette or two, it doesn't need to bring your program to a crashing halt. "Cheating" or lighting up once over a cup of coffee needn't put you back on the road to a pack a day. 

Remind yourself that quitting is hard. Just like anything difficult, you won't get it right immediately. Figure out what caused you to smoke and learn from it. 

The key is to move on from the slip-up because berating yourself will only add to your stress and may make you fall off the wagon entirely. Treat it as a bump in the road you're still traveling down. Remind yourself why you want to quit and get back on track again as a nonsmoker. 

Remember how much better you started feeling right before you slipped up. Use that as motivation. If you went three days without a cigarette, try to make it a week this time. 

You may fail the first time you try to quit smoking. You might even need to give up your plan for a while. Identify the barriers that made you stumble in your attempt to quit and how to overcome them when you try again. You're ready once you've refined your plan and revived your fervor. 

What if I'm just not ready to quit? 

Being ready is essential to success. Different things motivate different people to stop smoking. Recognize that smoking is an addiction.   

Paying more attention to when you smoke and what triggers your desire for a cigarette can be the first step in your preparations. Build up your motivation to quit: Write down five reasons you want to quit and look at the list every day. You can devise a plan that will work for you by considering your wishes and needs.